In September 2017 two families started searching for a feasible site and learning all we can about creating a cohousing community. Over time we have grown to 14 households committed to making Cohousing ABQ a reality. We are a multigenerational group dedicated to creating community. Read some of our bios below and get to know us. ​

Marlies, Setso, Milo and Lena

Marlies grew up in a cohousing community and has always had a dream of moving back into one. Marlies wishes for her kids the same independence she had when running around in a group of kids all day long. Marlies has a passion for healthy living, nutrition, and local food and enjoys camping and hiking. She has a professional background in the field of landscape architecture and serves as the local project manager for the Cohousing ABQ group. Marlies trained as a master gardener in Albuquerque and attended the Las Huertas regenerative farmers program at Rio Grande Community Farms. She is looking forward to growing food with neighbors for community meals.

Setso loves hosting Soltice parties and hopes that they will become a tradition in our future community. Setso also cooks great Bulgarian dips with a New Mexico twist (green chile). He is a computer scientist in Albuquerque.

Milo is a Fourth Grader at a public Montessori school. He loves Legos and letting his fantasy run wild in the Rio Grande bosque or the local mountains.

Lena is a First Grader and loves singing, dancing, gymnastics and anything to do with arts and crafts.

Maggie was an Instructor in the Sustainability Studies Program at UNM until 2014.  She created and taught courses on energy efficiency, started a campus wide recycling program, developed courses on Co-ops As a Business Model, installed a Farmer's Market and placed the Grab N Go food Co-op on campus.  She was elected to the LaMontanita Co-op Board of Directors in 2018.

In 2001, she co-founded The Sustain Ability Trust which provided community classes on water catchment, grey water recycling, bulk purchasing, natural building, backyard gardening, adobe and straw bale building. Desiring to live more cooperatively, she co-founded EcoVila Cunha in Brazil in 2004 using permaculture principles.  She gave three Transition Towns trainings in Albuquerque and has collaborated on CO2 Mitigation campaigns through TransitionABQ.




Aaron, Olivia, August and Oona

Olivia grew up in Poland, and came to the United States as a teenager not knowing any English. She was able to go to school thanks to athletics. She is still passionate about leading a healthy lifestyle. She now runs a forest school group here in Albuquerque, and stays home with their two kids.


Aaron is from East Texas, and enjoys DIY projects that he learns from Youtube. Both Olivia and Aaron have a passion for DIY, thrifting, fixing, and living frugally.


August is 7 and Oona is 5.


Patti has lived in Albuquerque for 35 years, raised 2 sons here and grew her physical therapy and yoga therapy practice.   She’s often been involved with music, and now plays in an African marimba band.    Now that her sons and grand children live in the Pacific Northwest, she spends a lot of time there.   She thrives in  the out doors....hiking, snowshoeing, and backpacking and looks forward to living near the bosque for daily walks with Jack, her dog.  
Patti needs to make things....knitting, creating functional items and toys out of wool felt, natural dyeing with plants and eco printing with leaves and other found objects, and cooking.   She considers herself a “production cook”... making kombucha, sauerkraut,  yogurt, and drying foods.  Having lived in community before, she is excited about bringing that way of life back...sharing, connecting, creating. 



Penina is a veteran massage therapist and early childhood teacher who looks forward to growing food and enjoying it with others.  She is socially motivated to get out and hike, bike, practice yoga  name it! She likes singing, dancing and theater and is pursuing Spanish/English interpreting.  

Penina has farmed in the South Valley and was a board member of Erda Gardens. She was a bilingual teacher with South Valley children at both Atrisco and Los Padillas Elementary Schools. Penina was among the pioneers at Casa Armijo on Isleta before it became a Charter School.

The Air Force brought Jim and Mary to Albuquerque 25 years ago and the people, mountains, green chile and weather kept them here.

Mary helps with her grandchild and loves soccer and hiking. She also loves kayaking and volunteers with Kayak New Mexico, an adaptive kayaking program for kids and adults with disabilities.

Jim is retired Air Force and is still involved in the Air Force community at work and enjoys bowling and beer.

They are looking forward to being involved in a cooperative community.


Mary and Jim


Stacey and Jeff

Stacey has lived many places in the mountain west, and arrived in Albuquerque in 2002.  After many years of working in hair salons, she and a coworker have purchased the men's salon where they worked, and are now enthusiastic small business owners.  She has a passion for seeking out hidden places and activities in the west, and for all things related to coffee. 

 Jeff has had a wandering career as a physicist who studies the upper atmosphere and northern lights.  After spending almost a decade in the arctic — Alaska and Svalbard, he works as a researcher at Kirtland AFB and has been in Albuquerque since 2010. He has played drums since elementary school and enjoys all types of music with great drumming.  Stacey and Jeff are interested in sustainable living and being part of a like-minded community.


Jan was born in Binghamton, NY, and has lived in Rochester, MN, Raleigh, NC, Johnson City, TN, San Anselmo and Woodacre, CA, Phoenix, AZ, Centerville, MA, Asheville, NC, Gilbert, AZ, and currently lives in Flagstaff, AZ.  She has, also, moved from place to place within each city.  She desires to stop wandering, find a place and settle down.  Cohousing ABQ's vision of a multigenerational community formed to revitalize the land in order to produce a healthy environment, good food, and a co-operative spirit among neighbors is the place she has chosen to call home.


Janey, Yariv, Ori, and Ariel

The Williams-Nissim family are L.A. residents who stumbled upon Cohousing ABQ in their search for a greater sense of community, connection to nature, and more sustainable lifestyle. They are so looking forward to their move to ABQ, they can hardly wait! Janey is an L.A. native with a background in cultural anthropology who spent a decade abroad before returning to the City of Angels. She's passionate about audio narrative storytelling, reading, dance, and coffee/tea/wine/tequila breaks with friends and neighbors. Yariv grew up in a tight-knit community in Israel where sharing food with neighbors and packs of kids roaming the streets were the norm. He's a food enthusiast and is excited about sharing meals with co-housing members of different cultural culinary backgrounds. He's a software engineer, a capoerista, and has a love for motorcycles and other fast things. Ori is 4.5, loves books, make-believe games, and knows everything there is to know about sea-creatures. Ariel is nearly 2 but keeps up pretty darn well with the big kids. He loves to dance, tell jokes, and everything to do with animals.

Brian, Jessie and Maeve

After decades in Albuquerque, Brian, Jessie, and Maeve are joining Cohousing ABQ to make it easier to share daily living with friends, within a full city life. The beauty of the river and its wildlife make this location a clear choice. Jessie has lived in intentional communities in many places throughout the US, and is excited to have friends next door again. She works as an Occupational Therapist and Cranial Sacral Therapist with infants, teens, and adults. She loves all kinds of outdoor activities (but don’t choose her for your volleyball team). Brian looks forward to raising Maeve in an active community and engaging all the kids (and adults) in a myriad of physical and hands-on projects. He also hopes there are still people out there who eat gluten, because his cinnamon rolls are just so tasty. Maeve was born into the world surrounded by the idea and the voices of Cohousing ABQ, and we can’t wait to see what she makes of it.

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Alice grew up in Brooklyn, NY., in a family that valued community and
enjoyed “going to the country,” and camping in the Adirondacks.

Many years later, in 1979, with her new BSN degree and RN license, she
arrived in New Mexico having taken a job with the Indian Health Service.
Her intention was to work in NM for a couple of years to get some
experience and then segue to working abroad with one or another health
agency. But she fell in love with “La Tierra del Encanto,” and made it her
home. She loves the NM sky, the landscape, the complex history of the
land and the people who live here. She lived and worked in Santa Fe, then
Mesilla (a small town south of Las Cruces), and moved to Albuquerque in


When she heard about Cohousing ABQ, she recognized a perfect fit. The
values of the community, the proximity of the river, and the neighborhood
feel just right. And since sustainability is a matter of life or death, she is all
in for sustainability!


Among the blessings of retirement are having time to walk in the Bosque,
smile at the birds and other creatures who live there, practice yoga,
meditate, and play the piano. To also belong to a community of friendly
neighbors with similar values — that’s a prize.


Our Vision and Values

Our Vision is to build a resilient community that fosters healthy families and respects the environment.

We value the health
of the planet
so our goal is to live environmentally sustainable through design and practices.
We value our physical
and emotional health
so our goal is to live in a walkable and bikeable community with access to natural environments.
We value confident,
inquisitive children
so our goal is to provide a nurturing and inspiring environment for them.
We value social connection
so our goal is to create a community that fosters supportive relationships through warmth, openness and understanding.
We value diverse beliefs, backgrounds and abilities
so our goal is to create an inclusive community where anybody sharing our vision and values is welcome.
We value mutual respect
and tolerance
so our goal is to adopt a consent based
governance style.
We value living well
so our goal is to create a community that makes sustainable choices easy and comfortable to live with.
We value a responsible
food economy
so our goal is to experiment with growing our own food and supporting existing local food economies.

Our Story: It Takes a Village...

On a typical day, you get the kids ready and shuttle them to school. Then you rush through your workday, pick up the kids, and drive them to an after-school activity. Then you rush home and wonder what you should put on the table. Parents are harried, and kids are chauffeured from one structured adult-led activity to the next. Gone are the days when it was acceptable for children to just be home after school, to bike around the neighborhood, or to walk over to the playground to play with the neighborhood kids.

Not so in cohousing communities. Imagine, instead, that after a long day of work and school, you park your car and walk to your house past the common garden. Your child runs off to join the kids of all age groups who are playing together outside, while wafts of a simmering stew remind you that tonight is one of the weekly community dinners. You drop off your things at home and then walk down the path to your community’s common house for a homemade meal with your neighbors.


Cohousing ABQ aims to bring this vision to reality for families, couples, and singles of all ages in the Albuquerque area. In the words of Marlies Metodi, one of the founding members, the aim of Cohousing ABQ is to “bring a socially responsible and environmentally sustainable housing option to Albuquerque.”

Cohousing developments, which originated in Denmark, are intentional communities that strive for the spirit of a village in which people, young and old, can support each other in many aspects of daily life. Having grown up in one in Austria, Marlies always loved the idea of collaborative housing communities. When she and her husband, Tzvetan, shared this dream with their friends Kersti Tyson and Matt Sexton, the resounding “yes, let’s do this” helped get the idea off the ground here in Albuquerque. Both families wanted to build a cohousing community where children could enjoy freedom of movement with friends, surrounded by families, couples, and individuals who know one another and work together to care for common areas, collaborating to live in more ecologically friendly ways. As the two families started to investigate the possibilities around this vision, they determined that now was the time to move forward with this great and challenging undertaking. Cohousing ABQ was born. The founding members began the process of community formation and development by visiting other cohousing communities and speaking with cohousing development consultants, architects, and engineers.

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Architecture by McCamant & Durrett Architects.

Photo Credit: RMKM

Since Cohousing ABQ is starting from scratch and is at the planning phase, early members can influence the direction of the project. In identifying a location and designing the space, opportunities to interact are of prime importance. A core idea behind cohousing is to strike a balance between common areas and private areas — thus, while the homes are privately owned by each family, the community is designed around the idea of a village. Imagine houses arranged around a shared courtyard or open area; cars left at the periphery so that inside the community, there is room for people to connect in common areas; and a common house where neighbors meet for meals and activities. Neighbors take turns preparing meals and doing clean up together on a regular basis, and families can reserve places at the table a few days in advance. Throughout the week, neighbors can join game or movie nights, yoga classes, workshops or enjoy a conversation around the fireplace.

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As new members join, the group will use dynamic governance to decide on the community spaces they want to see, such as dining and meeting areas, as well as gardens or an adventure playground for children. Thus far, the founding members have identified shared values relating to environmental consciousness, sustainability, and diversity and are committed to incorporating these values into the design of the common house and dwelling units. Cohousing ABQ will aim to build to the Passive House standard, to reserve common space for growing food, and to build homes that are comparable in price to other new homes in Albuquerque. What we are finding is that these ideals are compatible. For example, by thinking about energy efficiency from the start, we can keep utility bills very close to zero year round. In addition, community members can benefit from shared resources to reduce our carbon footprint. By collectively pooling resources, talents, and interests, people can share in cooking, childcare, gardening, and transportation.

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Many of us have come to accept the reality that we can go months without interacting with a single neighbor. But that doesn’t have to be the case. Cohousing ABQ, at its core, is all about interconnectedness and the shared value of families living more sustainably as a community. As we have begun to experience, and social scientists confirm, our quality of life improves with daily social interactions and connections. Our aim is to work with others to bring this dream to reality.